I deserve everything, and my life will be full only when I get what I really want. People truly live their lives with the belief that they should always get what they desire, and if they are unable to get it, are they not worthy?
Others will adopt a “Being right” lifestyle, which can severely damage relationships and families. I am correct, which means I am worthy of and have a place in this world! Because I am correct, I am superior to everyone else. This issue becomes crucial in a person’s life!
Others have different lifestyles that can result in conflict, such as a person who believes he/she must accomplish as many things as possible quickly.
What will a child do in order to feel a sense of belonging and worthy to a family, or a group? Most often, the objectives are incorrect and damaging, such as being the best, and I must compete with others. As parents, we are unaware that this may be a misguided goal; in fact, we support it. Later in life, a child will develop an ingrained sense of constant survival and the need to demonstrate that he/she is always superior to everyone.
How would you like to raise your child?
